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Victim Offender Dialogue

VICTIMS OF CRIME CHOOSING TO
MEET WITH THE OFFENDER

EMPOWERMENT

STRENGTH

RECOVERY

Crime victims and survivors usually experience stages of grief and recovery. As time passes, some people may seek an opportunity to meet with their offender.

They may want to talk about the harms caused, get answers to questions, or express their feelings and concerns about the victimizing behavior (crime). For some, this meeting can be helpful in their journey toward recovery.

Upon request of crime victims or survivors in New Hampshire, Cheshire Mediation will make appropriate referral for an initial screening to help determine whether a facilitated dialogue may be appropriate and safe. Cheshire Mediation also works in conjunction with the Office of Victims Services from the Department of Corrections to conduct dialogues.

Victim-Offender Dialogue is NOT …

  • Appropriate for everyone
  • Counseling or therapy
  • A quick fix or "cure" for all problems related to a crime

If you feel you need formal counseling for assistance in dealing with the trauma and grief caused by crime, please consider seeking support from an individual therapist or group counselors available in New Hampshire.

Victim-Offender Dialogue IS …

A conversation between the person harmed and person responsible for the crime

  • Victim-requested
  • Victim-sensitive
  • Victim-driven
  • Empowering for victims and survivors who choose
    to personally address the impacts of crime with the offender;
  • Voluntary by each party;
  • Supported by trained facilitators from NH


 
 

 

"After meeting with the offender involved in my crime I feel like a huge weight has been lifted from me. Thank you."   Victim of a violent crime

"It was one of the hardest, and best things I have ever done."
Offender of an arson